If you don’t have any of these:
Then you don’t have shit.
Why is this important or relevant? You have to have them for yourself (which is very important) and other people (which is a really good idea). If you don’t, then you can’t expect any of them from other people. Without it you are nothing. That’s just the way it is.
If you can’t do these simple 3 things, just stop & think for a second. Is it that hard to show these things to others? Or yourself? Why? Get with the program….